Common Questions Explored in Counseling and Therapy

  • Am I “normal”?
  • Do I please my partner?
  • Why doesn’t my partner please me?
  • Why is there no “spark” in bed?
  • How do I increase excitement/desire?
  • Is it OK to fantasize?
  • My partner has cheated. Can I trust again?
  • How do I work through my anger?
  • Have I fallen out of love?
  • I‘m not happy. How do I not hurt my partner?
  • Am I gay or lesbian?
  • Am I bisexual?
  • Does my partner want to do sexual things that I don’t?
  • Do I want to do sexual things that my partner doesn’t want to do
  • Do I have questions about orgasm?
  • Do I have questions about premature ejaculation?
  • Do I have questions about delayed ejaculation?
  • Do I have a sexual addiction?
  • Am I sexually compulsive?
  • Do I have a problem with online sexual activity?
  • Does my body/sex not match how I feel inside?
  • How do I tell my parents, partner, family or children?
  • Have I experienced sexual abuse or sexual trauma?
  • Do I suffer from the effects of childhood sexual abuse/sexual trauma?
  • Am I a male survivor of sexual abuse or sexual trauma?
  • How do I help my children with sexual abuse/sexual trauma?
  • Has my or my partner’s sexual abuse/sexual trauma affected our relationship?  
  • Am I concerned about my child’s sexuality?
  • How do I talk about sex with my children?
  • How do I deal with sex and a partner who is ill?
  • Do I suffer from loss and grief?
  • Do I experience feelings of abandonment?
  • Do I experience worry or fear?
  • Do I feel shame?
  • Do I feel guilty?
  • Do engage in self injurious behavior?
  • Do I cut myself?
  • Do I have problems at work/school?
  • Do I have problems with relationships
  • Do I have low self esteem?
  • Am I shy?
  • Do I have anxiety?
  • Am I depressed?