Common Questions Explored in Counseling and Therapy

Am I “normal”?
Do I please my partner?
Why doesn’t my partner please me?
Why is there no “spark” in bed?
How do I increase excitement/desire?
Is it OK to fantasize?
My partner has cheated. Can I trust again?
How do I work through my anger?
Have I fallen out of love?
I‘m not happy. How do I not hurt my partner?
Am I gay or lesbian?
Am I bisexual?
Does my partner want to do sexual things that I don’t?
Do I want to do sexual things that my partner doesn’t want to do
Do I have questions about orgasm?
Do I have questions about premature ejaculation?
Do I have questions about delayed ejaculation?
Do I have a sexual addiction?
Am I sexually compulsive?
Do I have a problem with online sexual activity?
Does my body/sex not match how I feel inside?
How do I tell my parents, partner, family or children?
Have I experienced sexual abuse or sexual trauma?
Do I suffer from the effects of childhood sexual abuse/sexual trauma?
Am I a male survivor of sexual abuse or sexual trauma?
How do I help my children with sexual abuse/sexual trauma?
Has my or my partner’s sexual abuse/sexual trauma affected our relationship?
Am I concerned about my child’s sexuality?
How do I talk about sex with my children?
How do I deal with sex and a partner who is ill?
Do I suffer from loss and grief?
Do I experience feelings of abandonment?
Do I experience worry or fear?
Do I feel shame?
Do I feel guilty?
Do engage in self injurious behavior?
Do I cut myself?
Do I have problems at work/school?
Do I have problems with relationships
Do I have low self esteem?
Am I shy?
Do I have anxiety?
Am I depressed?